You may find it difficult to drum up confidence to ask someone out who works at a local bar. However, there are a handful of things that you will be able to do that will allow you to be able to get the confidence that is necessary to ask that special somebody out.
Drinks
If they work at a local bar then there will probably be an alcoholic drink or two that you will be able to get your hands on while you are trying to get the confidence that is needed. It is so important that you don’t end up drinking too much. If you do, then they will more than likely not take you seriously and will only end up thinking of you as yet another drunk that is at the bar and hitting on them. Make sure that you only have enough to calm your nerves and loosen you up a little.
Flirt
Flirt with them first. You will find that once you get going on a roll with flirting that you will really end up being able to have the confidence that you need. A lot of people will jump right into it and ask them out. This is not a good idea. Warm them up a little by doing a little bit of flirting to see how they respond.
Just Do It
The more that you think about it and agonize over it the more difficult it will be. This is why it is a good idea to just say the words before you have a chance to chicken out.